Everyone can make excuses to make the circumstances or the outcomes of the situations come out according to one's whims but it's rare for someone to accept things as they are. As far as my observations go, the human nature has the habit of defining and explaining things on some reasons and those too which fit their own perspective of acceptance.

Here I turn this narrative to a direction which suits my purpose. The point I made earlier makes my next statement self explanatory when I say that the people in love are people who are called fools. Not fools as in foolish fools ' fools as in general fools. They have a habit of carving out reasons out of nothing, and in many cases it is this heightened ability of perspective reasoning which ruins the game.

If a guy stares at a girl she thinks he is interested in her or maybe something's attractive in her appearance or maybe she stands out or something, whereas it may be so that he is just thinking of something and staring out while she intrudes his domain of visionary staring out at space.

This phenomenon often leads to that thing far from reality which in turn results in the fantasy based disillusions.

I think I am in love ' I think I am in love ' love's got a hold on me

People who are left out or already crossed out from its effect wonder how can it happen to begin with. Why is it becoming a necessity in our life day by day? Will this be the end of the human race? Why is it so fascinating that people are blindly taking the dive without knowing how deep the water is and how dark is the end?

The justification given is that we humans are bounded by the limitations of our will. We come into the world without ever knowing how dark our end would be. So if our start is as uncertain as it is ' how can anyone expect that our future actions would be any different.

Here once again I direct your attention to how the reasons have been moulded to suit one's needs. It doesn't matter what we talk about ' it all leads to self satisfactory picture of life and death.

It may sound conventional but I have a strong belief in this saying that

'Some things just don't have a reason.'�

A person eats ice cream in summer, lets suppose, because he wants to cool off some of the heat, but a person having ice cream in winter is termed as abnormal or maybe even queer just because people cannot find a suitable reason for this action. If you look for a reason ' there is none. But it breaks the harmony of our own self so it becomes an unacceptable phenomenon.

Similarly why do we fall in love is the questions most asked ' because we were destined to - because we are made for each other ' because he/she suits my need! So people have even lulled this thing called 'love' in their own perspective ' that is why so many people relate to it. Now that has made everything so easy. A simple reason has opened the door to one of the easiest paths one can fall in even with the eyes closed.

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