Question: if, the intimate details of your relationship are considered to be sacred, why put your dirty laundry on display for the hunters to see it? Isn't it common logic that what happens in your relationship, stays in your relationship? Or are you the type who thinks common sense is not logical? Well, let's make it crystal clear. Are you familiar with the term 'Loose lips sink ships?'� Well apparently it applies to relation-ships as well. When you speak your personal business outside of your relationship you are in fact, speaking out of turn. And as much as you would love to believe that the people closest to you, mean you no harm, it's always your immediate circle that does you the most damage. By making your relationship available for public opinion, you are not only glad-handing misery but also setting the stage for a third party intervention. This is quickest way to poke a hole in your relationship. Because regardless of whether you are happy or not, there is always a crab in the barrel waiting to take you under. Usually, these are the hunter's who disguise their negative motivation behind the socially accepted monikers of friends, co-workers and in some extreme cases family. Their attitudes of concern are only a front to gain your confidence which makes it even more pertinent to watch what you say and do around fast company. This is especially important when it comes to public displays of anger because there is nothing more undermining to your relationship than putting your emotional baggage on Front Street. Not only does this dispute the validity of your relationship's health but it highlights the disrespectful communication which in itself marks the beginning of end.

The Hunters' Manipulation

Every committed relationship gets tested when it is least expected, and whether it's by set up or natural occurrence the passing or failing greatly depends on escaping the claws of the hunters. The hunters are the extremely thirsty home wrecking blood suckers who strikes when your relationship is in its most vulnerable state. They have absolutely no regard for the commitment in question just their own selfish motivations for sexual pleasure. They are amongst the most sympathetic manipulators who are quick to probe your mate's innocent conversation for anything remotely resembling dissatisfaction because it is this hint of discontent that provides the perfect opportunity for interference. Once the air of discontent has been discovered they shape shift into the crisis opportunist whose sole purpose is to become your mates' emotional sounding board and most trusted confidant. By securing their trust, this allows them to build a strong bond while simultaneously creeping through the private details of your relationship free from the suspicion of foul play.

Once they have infiltrated your relationships basic misunderstandings, swaying your mates' emotions are a simple matter of exploiting their emotional needs by exposing their most desired wants. By spot lighting their desires they are subliminally opening Pandora's Box which not only creates the cleverly scripted turmoil but also super imposes the missing treatment. This is the hunters' way of playing on the basic nature of greed because you always want what you don't have while turning a blind eye to the things you do. By focusing them on the short comings of your relationship, they are secretly magnifying your mate's need to seek fulfillment elsewhere. This is done by gently inserting temptation and curiosity into the infinite possibilities of what if. By exploring the 'what if'� they are introducing a hypothetical point of entry into a tempting reality where love and happiness have no boundaries. This is the power of the hypothetical because once your mate's has been exposed to the freedoms of their wants it is almost instinctual that they'll rebel against the neglect of their needs. Not only does this cause them to look at the status of your relationship cross-eyed but it allows the hunters to discreetly slip in the images that they are everything your mate ever wanted in a companion and must have.

Once they've arrived at this conclusion. The hunters strategically stage phony acts of kindness to intensify their desires while playing coy to the existence of anything other than a plutonic friendship. Before you know it, their friendship begins to takes center stage and your troubled relationship becomes a good excuse for your mates' to cross the line. This is the part where what they see becomes what they want and what they have at home doesn't have to know. Unfortunately for your sake, once they've embodied this violation committing the actual sexual deed is just a formality of time equaling opportunity. This is where the orgasmic possibilities of What Can Be becomes a reality and the resentment of 'What you won't do somebody else will,'� becomes their slogan. This is precisely why you make every attempt to satisfy your mate because once they've been infected by the bitter winds of resentment and exposed to the spoils of great sex, your relationship as you know it is as good as over.


'What You Won't Do Somebody Else Will'�


It's almost guaranteed that for every person you find attractive chances are someone else finds them attractive as well. Shouldn't the same apply to your mate? Or do you think, once you've taken them off the market no one else should dare find them attractive but you. Here's some reality, in the course of any given day your mate probably runs across six to ten people who find them attractive. Between those six to ten people, maybe they'll find 10 or 20 % of those individuals acknowledgeable. Let's just say for the sake of argument that they ignore every single suitor and forego all temptation be it mental or physical. What are the odds if your mate's receiving this much attention on a daily basis that they'll stay faithful if unhappy? Answer: Slim to none. Now, let's take it a step further. If you knew for a fact, that your mate was constantly under siege by the hunters, would you A continue to take them for granted or B do everything in your power to make them happy? The obvious answer should be B, but in most cases the sad reality is A which begs the next question, why does it take the threat of the hunter's eating your food before you pay attention to your meal? Shouldn't it be common sense that the same energy it took to get your mate, be the same energy it takes to keep them? Or is it that a relationship only as good as the hunt?

Here's the point. What is the use in being all you can be in the beginning of your relationship, if all you're going to be throughout it is lazy, unresponsive and complacent? Did it ever occur to you that the world doesn't revolve around the comfortable and if this is truly your belief, seriously speaking, would you date yourself? Just think about it. How would you like it if you had wake up next to yourself, and look at someone who was not only taking you for granted but whose attitude had symptomatically changed for the worst? How would you like it, if the person that you fell madly in love with, who not only did the small things but did the big, medium and tall things turned out to be an imposter? How tolerable would you be?

And since we're on the topic, what ever happen to the promises of romance, adventure, and sexual satisfaction? Or did that too leave as quickly as you came. Is it too much to ask of you to be the person that you were pretending to be for once or is this some sick glitch in the relationship matrix that keeps repeating the definition of insanity? Is it too much to expect the basic acts of humanity or are you the misery that loves company but hates itself and where does it state in the relationship manual that the words 'I love you'� are a sugar substitute for the missing compliments? Could you please CC your mate on that memo, because if you're not willing to openly and abundantly make your mate feel appreciated and attractive trust me, somebody else will?

This leads me to my next point of contention, why is it that you conveniently seem to want your mate only after somebody else wants them? Is this some twisted territorial fetish that leaves you wanting the very thing that you carelessly threw away or is this another failed attempt at reconciliation that leaves your mate emotionally on E? Does the phrase, 'You never miss what you have till it's gone,'� ring a bell? And since when was it ever acceptable to let your maintenance slip and appearance go hell. Is it so unfair that your mate should expect to be with the original physical specimen they were attracted to or was that too an illusion?

Now, let's talk about sex appeal, what makes you think that the extra fatty deposits around your abs, ass and chin look sexy? And since when does sucking in your stomach negate the fact that you haven't been to the gym in years? Is it too much to request that you live by the same standards that you strictly impose or is this too another one of your endless double standards? Speaking of double standards, when did it become okay to hang out with your friends to all hours of the night while subjecting your mate to house arrest? Does the quote, 'Let freedom ring,'� strike a cord, or are you the type that uses control as a weapon, and who told you that a little jealous rage was sexy? Sexy is not suffocation by relationship, 'No,'� that's stalking. And how is it that you can have all the friends you want of the opposite sex but when it comes to your mate enjoying the same privilege that's a perfect impossibility? Does this type of control ever make any sense, and if it ever did, could you live by the same rules? Could you honestly look at yourself in the mirror and not expect the hunter to be eating your food?

Let's continue. What ever happened to love, honor and respect, was that something that just sounded good at the time or is it now that you've gotten what you want, there is no need to give your mate what they deserve? Is it such a crime to want to be treated with dignity and if not, what's with the carelessness in your choice of words? When did it cross your mind that you could just say anything at any time, regardless of the misery you serve? Is there some untraceable drug that makes the jerk come out of a person when faced with the routine of commitment or are you just naturally this disrespectful? Where did treating your mate like you wanted to be treated disappear to and why is it so hard for you to communicate? Does it have to be like pulling teeth to get you to express your inner emotions or is your mate to expect nothing and like it?

Now, let's move on to your selfishness. When did it become okay for you to be all take and no give and who put you in charge of the receiving end? Isn't making love supposed to be a mutually satisfying event or is that only when you're in the mood. Don't you realize that when you hold out on your mate you are in fact, giving them away or is this beyond your comprehension? Well, let me explain, whenever you send your mate out into the wilderness unsatisfied, you are openly inviting the hunters in. The hunters exist solely on the backs of neglect, waiting to enter your relationship through the back steps of resentment. They not only depend on the predictability of complacency but they seek out every opportunity to feed on your relationships weaknesses. It is your arrogance that sponsors the selfishness that lets them in by ignoring that there are two sets of emotions involved in your relationship. Usually, these are the moments of self righteousness when you'd rather win an argument as opposed to preserving your mates' feelings or the times that you thought it was best to be served rather than do the serving. Relationships like most living organisms need nourishment in order to stay healthy. These are the priceless acts of kindness or the moments of selflessness that are classified as the small things. (Like, long strolls in the park, sensual massages, and actions not words that show you care). By doing the small things on a consistent basis you are building up your mate's resistance to the slings and arrows of the hunters. The hunters are thoroughly schooled on your patterns of laziness and understand that is only a matter of time before the small things stop and the dysfunctions of comfort sets in. The only way to out maneuver the hunters is to avoid the pitfalls of complacency. This is done by paying attention to the heartbeat of your relationship. By paying attention, you are not only keeping your hands on the pulse of your mate's emotional needs and wants, but also keeping a watchful eye out for any relationships deficiencies. This is a crucial point because it is often the comfort spawned deficiencies which cause you to slip in the areas of maintenance such as, respectful communication, physical up keep and sexual performance. Any type of neglect in these areas sets the stage for the violation and if your mate is to be found wanting, it's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when; your relationship will be penetrated. So, if you're the type that gets complacent after the hunt remember this; satisfying your mate although not easy, is a full time job and selfless satisfaction, if you think about it, often leads to mutual gratification. But, selfishness on any level puts you in a relationship by yourself. So, unless you're the narcissistic type that loves pleasuring yourself mind your business or lose your inventory for the inventory you lose may be in your home.

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