Bet this sounds something like a movie script or a pickup line from Oprah: "Heartbreak has its reasons which reasons no nothing of" I for one have been hearing that same old usual rant, they say its hard to find true love this days but..was there ever a time when it was easy???

Sure, I'm well aware that most broken hearted young people out there choose to live a hideous life, and in sheer desperation, they try to drown their memories in tears and even talked bout it in hushed tones. Its really pathetic how girls my age tend to deal with a tremendous breakup and finding it the hard way. Others though, had been fallen in and out of love and yet prefer to spread their post breakup pow wow to a bunch of "amigas" who, by the way, happened to be less interested as they seem to be..

As much as i hate to admit it, Ive also checked in at heartbreak hotel a couple of times myself, without no intention of leaving my room till i squeeze every angst tear from my puffy eyes. I'm no different from those who clam themselves as the total failure lover who firmly believes that love isn't fair.I certainly felt I must have looked like a discarded rag but after crying a bucket of tears, here i am again, ready to face the reality scene.

See, its really pretty odd why others single out trouble and find themselves hanging by a thread just to follow the footsteps of martyrdom. Ideally, half of the female population is doing the same thing, must I put my heart on hold when paranoia radar is beeping over time or when a new prospect is spotted? The answer would definitely be "NO". Why suffer too much than skip the mourning part of the break up?

I suggest to open up to a new prospect and try to relish your freedom from the cuffs of the past..Chances are, you'll find out soon enough that your life isn't such a bad curse after all.

So even if wolves comes blowing, your lair will still stand strong, u DIG?

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